Possession over someone is like ripping a sunflower from its roots. It slowly begins to whither away and lose its beauty, lose its shine, lose its purpose. Admiring it, watering it, nourishing it is what makes it grow and fills it with life. Love someone and care for them but don’t possess them, suffocating them. Jealousy and overprotective attitudes will slowly make your person whither away. They aren’t free or alive when they have no control over their own actions. Loving them is trusting them enough to be themselves and go after their own dreams. Be there for them, water them with your full support and admiration so they may grow to their full healthy potential.